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How to Sign Your First Client (Even When It Feels Like Nothing Is Working)

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Marketing, Sales

August 4, 2022

I see you.

You’re refreshing your DMs, checking your story views like it’s your side hustle, and wondering if all this effort will ever pay off.
You’re talking about your offers, watching who engages, and analyzing every post to see what might “hit.”

You’re doing everything right—at least that’s what the internet says you should be doing.

But still… no sales.

You’re left asking:

  • “When will I finally sign my first client?”
  • “How are they doing it?”
  • “What am I missing?”

I’ve been there. And I want to walk you through exactly what it takes to go from wondering to winning—because the answer isn’t more hustle.
It’s persistence, clarity, and consistent showing up with the right message, to the right person, at the right time.


The Long Wait: My First Client Story

During my first launch, I talked about my 1:1 program for six weeks straight.

Yes, you read that right. Six whole weeks.

I was full of excitement at the start—posting confidently, sharing how I could help, and waiting for the DMs to roll in.

But as the weeks passed and the silence grew louder, the doubt started creeping in.

  • “Am I cut out for this?”
  • “What if no one ever buys?”
  • “Is everyone just being polite?”

Still, I believed my dream client was out there.

I pictured her scrolling my stories, watching from the sidelines, waiting for the right moment. I knew she needed my offer.
So I kept showing up. I kept repeating the message. I said it 35 different ways.

And then, it happened:
I signed my first coaching client—for a four-figure package.

That moment changed everything. Not because of the money. But because it proved what I had started to suspect:

Not showing up in your business hurts more than getting no engagement.


Why Showing Up Matters More Than You Think

One of the most common things I see holding people back is the fear of being seen… paired with the frustration of not being seen.

It’s wild, right?

You want sales, but you’re afraid to sell.
You want clients, but you’re nervous to show up boldly.
You want to be heard, but you’re hesitant to repeat yourself.

But here’s the truth:
Your dream client is already watching. She just needs a reason to believe you’re the one.

That belief doesn’t come from a single post. It comes from repetition.
It comes from showing up—even when no one comments.
It comes from reinforcing your value, over and over again.

Because sales don’t come from one-time visibility. They come from reliable visibility.


The Sales Psychology Behind “First Client Energy”

Let’s pull in some buyer psychology.

Your dream client doesn’t wake up ready to invest. She moves through the 5 Stages of Buying:

  1. Problem Awareness – “Something’s not working.”
  2. Agitation – “I can’t keep doing this.”
  3. Solution Awareness – “I need help.”
  4. Product Awareness – “I think this offer could help.”
  5. You Awareness – “You’re the one I want to help me.”

If you stop posting during Stage 2, you miss the chance to move her to Stage 3.

If you never talk about your offer in Stage 4, she won’t see it as the solution.

And if you only show up once, you never get to become the trusted person she buys from in Stage 5.

This is why so many people ghost you right before saying yes. They’re still building safety, and they’re waiting for you to keep showing up.


What It Really Takes to Sign Your First Client

Let’s simplify it.

There are three major shifts to make if you’re ready to go from “no sales” to “first client signed”:

1. Show Up Consistently—Even If You’re Not Seeing Immediate Results

Selling isn’t about shouting louder.
It’s about being so consistent that your ideal client begins to trust you by default.

  • Post about your offer daily
  • Repeat your core message 42 different ways
  • Assume the right person is watching, even when engagement is low

Every time you talk about your offer, you build a breadcrumb trail that leads people to a decision.

Don’t stop halfway through the trail.

2. Make Your Offer Clear—And Repeat It Often

Confused people don’t buy.
And silence doesn’t convert.

You need to talk about:

  • What the offer is
  • Who it’s for
  • What it helps with
  • What result they can expect
  • Why now is the right time

Your dream client doesn’t need more convincing.
She needs clarity.

3. Address Objections Before They Come Up

Don’t wait until someone ghosts you to explain your payment plan or the ROI of your offer.

If you know your ideal client is thinking:

  • “Can I afford this?”
  • “What if it doesn’t work for me?”
  • “I’ve tried things before…”

Answer those objections before they ask.
That’s what builds trust and reduces the risk in their mind.


Real Client Wins: Proof That Consistency Closes

These client stories are proof that persistence works—and that showing up pays off:

  • Ashley M. closed $14.5K in one week after consistently promoting her offer and nurturing silent lurkers.
  • Lacey M. turned a $175 investment into $50K by pushing past visibility fears and showing up daily.
  • Taylor D. hit $11K in sales in one week by actively selling in her stories and DMs every day.
  • Bri C. went from inconsistent $3K months to regular $10K months simply by promoting her premium offer daily.
  • Sarah C. signed 3 new clients in a month—after showing up even when engagement was low.
  • Keri W. transformed her side hustle into a business by consistently sharing results and inviting people in.
  • Hanna B. signed 5 clients within weeks of launching—just by showing up confidently and consistently.
  • Alyana doubled her prices and signed multiple clients by overcoming fear and addressing objections in her content.
  • Micyala turned silent followers into buyers after implementing a consistent content and DM plan.
  • Kas D. rebuilt her confidence to show up—and closed multiple four-figure clients with ease.

These are not unicorn wins. These are the result of strategic messaging and consistent selling.


The Mindset Shift You Need Right Now

If you’re stuck in frustration, this is your wake-up call.

Ask yourself:

  • Am I showing up like the CEO of my business?
  • Am I giving my offer enough runway to be heard?
  • Am I assuming people need to see it once, or 21 times?

You don’t have to wait until you “feel ready” to be consistent.
You just have to decide: I’m the person they’re waiting for.


Why Most People Quit Right Before It Works

Here’s what I’ve seen after coaching hundreds of entrepreneurs:

The people who quit after one week of promoting? Never find out how close they were.
The people who pause because “no one is engaging”? Miss the lurkers ready to buy.
The people who tweak the offer too soon? Never give the strategy time to breathe.

Signing your first client isn’t about perfect branding.
It’s not about going viral.
It’s not about waiting until you have “enough followers.”

It’s about showing up, day after day, until someone finally says:

“I’ve been watching you for a while… I think I’m ready.”


Ready to Sign Your First (or Next) Client? Start Here:

Here’s your action plan for the next 30 days:

  • Pick one offer and commit to selling it for the entire month
  • Post about it daily in stories, emails, and on your feed
  • Answer 3–5 objections per week through content
  • Share wins, past results, or personal insights at least 3x/week
  • Invite people into the offer every single day—yes, every day

You do not need a perfect funnel. You need presence.

Your first client is already watching.
Your job is to keep showing up until they feel safe enough to say yes.


Final Thoughts: Persistence Creates Proof

The only difference between you and someone who’s fully booked is time and repetition.

They didn’t start with an audience. They didn’t have a secret script.
They just didn’t quit before it worked.

Let this post be your proof:

  • People are watching.
  • They’re waiting for permission.
  • They want to trust you—but you have to show them you’re trustworthy.

And trust is built with consistency.


Want to Learn Exactly Why Your Sales Aren’t Converting?

Inside the free mini course “Why You’re Not Making $5K Months (And How to Fix It),” I’ll walk you through the real reasons why your ideal clients aren’t buying—and how to fix it using proven sales psychology.

You’ll learn:

What to shift if people are watching, but not buyingo sign your first client, start by:

Why your content might be attracting the wrong stage of buyer

How to talk about your offer in a way that builds belief and urgency

  1. Increasing Your Visibility: Talk about your offer daily across platforms.
  2. Sharing Your Value: Show how your program or service solves real problems.
  3. Staying Consistent: Don’t let a lack of immediate results deter you. Success takes time.

Your first client is closer than you think—but only if you keep showing up.

 
 
 
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How to Sign Your First Client (Even When It Feels Like Nothing Is Working)

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